{"id":81,"date":"2004-03-01T00:02:21","date_gmt":"2004-03-01T08:02:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chartervision.org\/81"},"modified":"2006-02-27T11:45:53","modified_gmt":"2006-02-27T19:45:53","slug":"proving-mom-wrong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/archive.sdho.org\/2008\/01\/chartervision\/archive\/81\/","title":{"rendered":"Proving Mom Wrong"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I feel a great sense of accomplishment after moving from doing badly in school to doing great. A couple years ago I was at a school called South High. It is a big school, which means big trouble to me. I was a student that did not want to do anything or take any responsibility. I did not like the teachers there; therefore I did not go to class. My sister lived right across the street from the school so I would go there and &#8221;chill&#8221; with my friends when she was at work. I continued to do this until one day my school called my sister&#8217;s house and told her that if I did not start coming to school, my mom was going to jail. Right then and there I knew I had to change. My first goal was to get out of that school because I knew I wasn&#8217;t going to do anything at South. I went to my social worker for school options; he was going to send me to<br \/>\nthe Mall of Americas School. My friend Alisha told me about a school called Skills for Tomorrow. I told myself that when I started this school I was going to stay focused and be successful. I kept my promise because I am doing very well in school.<\/p>\n<p>I took on this challenge originally so I wouldn&#8217;t be responsible for my mother going to jail. But honestly, I also did it because my mother said I couldn&#8217;t. My mother thought that I was going to come to this school and &#8220;get caught up with the boys.&#8221; It kind of hurt me to know that my<br \/>\nmother thought of me that way. This gave me encouragement, because I didn&#8217;t want my mother to feel that way about me. I wanted to straighten up so badly, that I ignored every thing except what I had to do. In school I started out doing it for my mom, but after a while this school taught me that I have to do it for myself.<\/p>\n<p>It was challenging because I was in a new environment. I am a shy person around new people because I don&#8217;t know what they think of me. I stayed quiet and that was a problem for me. Teachers expect me to talk more. It was also hard getting to trust people. We have teamwork activities and I was kind of afraid to let people lead me and help me. After a while I started<br \/>\ngetting use to it and I started connecting more. What was also challenging was some of the work they gave me. It required lots of typing and I felt I was not going to get it done. I also had problems at home. My sister&#8217;s house caught on fire and all my stuff was in there. I felt like giving up at that point. The school brought me things that I needed: clothes, for example, which gave me hope.<\/p>\n<p>I made it through because I knew that I was important and that school is a pathway to my future. I just stayed focused and believed that I could do it. I kept my mind on my work and strived for better. I kept up with my assignments and I never gave up. I gave myself encouragement and I got some from my mom when she saw me doing well.<\/p>\n<p>What I got out of this is a better life. A life that is going to fulfill its dreams and goals. I&#8217;ve made the honor roll every term since I have been at Skills for Tomorrow. I have also gotten the perfect attendance award each time. I now know that if I put my mind to it I can do anything I want. I&#8217;ve gotten support and encouragement, and I value my integrity. I am now continuing to<br \/>\ndo well so that I can stay on the honor roll, to make my mother happy and to know that I made the choice to change my life and fulfill my dream.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I feel a great sense of accomplishment after moving from doing badly in school to doing great. A couple years ago I was at a school called South High. It is a big school, which means big trouble to me. I was a student that did not want to do anything or take any responsibility. 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